Why do two therapists using the same technique so often get different results?
In nearly four decades of bodywork, from structural integration to craniosacral therapy, I’ve found one factor that shapes a session more than any modality: the state of the practitioner’s mind. It determines whether the work is mechanical or truly responsive.
The Monkey Mind on the Table
The “monkey mind” is an old Eastern term for the restless, chattering mind that jumps from thought to thought. When it runs the session, you can’t listen to the tissue under your hands. You start doing the work to the client instead of with them.
Bodywork without an agenda asks something specific of you. You don’t arrive with a goal to fix, release, or correct. You make contact, listen, and let the body show you what it needs. Your methodology gives you the map, but the client’s system decides the route. That listening can’t happen when your mind is crowded.
I know this from experience. When I walk into a session carried away by my own daily problems, or when my biorhythms are off, my ability to help is diminished. The person on my table came for my full presence, and a scattered mind can’t offer it. [Read more…]